Since posting last things have been up and down. More good days then bad but I do not know if that is just her faking it since we are stuck living together for the time being.

Also had another curve ball thrown yesterday which looking at the systems may explain a lot of what has been happening. Even though my wife is only 36 she is beginning Menopause (her mother got it at the same age). So I don't know if everything with her hormones being off is the source of the issue and early on I handled it very poorly.


Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15