Thanks for checking in. A lot going on, I've actually posted twice, but I guess they haven't shown up.
Let's do the quick summary, I saw a L last week, W knowing that was going on, asked me to send an email showing how I have changed. I have not yet done this. From my intelligence, the OM and her are having some issues. And lastly, I have been receiving regular rants and my W has now come to realize she has borderline personality disorder.
Now I don't really disagree with this diagnosis. She sent me all kinds of information on the symptoms, emotional instability, quick to anger, irrational, suspicious, unable to reason with, and prone to sexual indiscretions. Also on the list was alternating between driving yourself away from someone close to you and then having fear of abandonment.
This was followed by all kinds of rants and swearing at me for not responding. So I responded this AM by thanking her for sending me the information, and then asking who she had for support and who had she discussed this with. I also asked her how we can manage this going forward with our interactions. Although she isn't interested in me at this time, I need to interact. She said after looking at the diagnosis, it seems futile to her. This saddened me.
I find it ironic she can send me this information, and then rant and spew at me with impunity. It seems she fails to realize this step.
That being said, identifying the issue is big for her, I'm going to check into different treatments so I can ask her about them.
