Annnnd, here's why I feel ok about completely detaching: I just called to say goodnight (which is unusual, but my babysitter said my D wanted to talk to me, and I didn't get a chance to call before H got home), and he can't even speak to me for a second. D "answered" the phone (she's not even 4 and I called his cell phone). Who the he!! needs that.
What an a$$.
Claire, Seriously. Don't read too much into this. I hardly let my kids (5 & 7) touch my android and when they do, they barely know how to operate it. They go to my mom's, she has the same exact phone, they are showing HER how do do things. If I call my Mom, she lets them answer sometimes. It makes them feel special.
It's quite possible it has nothing to do with you at all.
(((Claire))) You're doing great. You've got enough reality to beat you up 100 times over, don't make stuff up to beat yourself even harder. It's counter-productive.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3