That sounds good, I bet I can find a cheap copy next time im in the relationships section. I suppose a lot of the reviews I read said "why was this woman even fighting to stay with this guy who didn't love her?" Which is generally the anti-DB sentiment to a T.

But sometimes I do wonder why I'm wasting time fighting for her when she clearly is doing nothing to deserve me. I know a better partner is out there.

Weird note tonight: our S6 came home today with a form letter in his backpack informing us that he is recommended for this therapy program for kids in "housing transitions". Huh? It wasn't directly addressed to us by name, but still. W showed it to me and said "you didn't tell his teacher we were separating did you?" I said of course not. I haven't. She seems distressed and has been on the phone with BFF for a good while. It's fairly likely that she doesn't believe me, or thinks that something is up that she doesn't know about. I honestly have no idea where this would have come from. Ironically, she's the one who wants a separation so this should be all on her. Very weird though. Could just be a strange coincidence or error or......what? Do public schools have affair detecting software?


M: 33
W: 33
M: 9 T: 10
3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5
BD: 8/3/14
Living together