Recent Separation...trying to cope

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Thanks 2stubborn2quit and Bravo! I saw my IC today and told her my news and she told me to think of things that make me feel overwhelmed in regards to piecing the M back, so I can make better decisions on how I need to approach this. Before W told me, I was on my way to LRT and about to start LC because I didn't think she was ever going to change her mind.

W told me though, she needs to fall back in love with me. She also mentioned she still doesn't know if a deep connection can come back with me and in the end, it still might not work out. That I understood, validated and am taking careful steps to make sure I don't blow it, and do things that will help her fall back in love with me again. I'm still working on myself, for ME. So I will continue to do my 180s as I try to think of ways to make this M work and be stronger. She also just scheduled her IC therapist appointment today without me pushing her, which is a great first step for her, and me knowing that she really wants to give our M another chance.