....I was going to go to the gym but after all that I can't get up. And just want to lay on the couch and watch TV and have a drink. Or two. So speaking of, my H didn't like that I'd have a drink on a weekday (after dinner...when all my stuff was complete... not during work, not a six pack, or anything). Is your drinking a problem when it upsets someone else? Where's the difference between problematic and someone just having different standards (or like bravo said he just might be more "prudish" or conservative)? Do I have a problem or am I just taking H's criticism too seriously because I'm looking for the magic thing I can do or say to bring him back? As I type this... I remember that H has a DUI, and I do not. Hmm...that's telling, I think (although H continues to swear that was an unlucky break and blames his friend for giving him directions that involved driving down a one way street the wrong way and he didn't know it was a one-way...and wasn't about his judgment, he could drive just fine).
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final