Thanks Kat and Jack, you pulled me back me from the edge. So one funny(?) comment from W, was that maybe she should become a prostitute to start paying for things. I suggested she not consider that idea.
I am so proud of d20, who lives with me (rent free, full-time student and 2 jobs). She is sending d18 some money to help with her rent. They are very close, but I love to see family come together during tough times.
Also, d18 just got hired at Starbucks. She needed her birth certificate and was grousing at me all weekend long, when I told her I couldn't find it - I have a file with all important paperwork for each child, but could not find d18's file. Then first thing this morning she texted me a picture of the birth certificate, and so I apparently gave d18 her file, and she just came across it. But this is good news for d18, and hopefully takes some of the pressure off of her shoulders.
