Fresh separation - trying to play by the book

[Mozza]

I decided to push for Thursday. I had never offered Tuesday anyway and it made me feel like a pushover to accept her offer outside of my proposal. She replied: "It should work, yes. Let's keep in touch." She makes me feel like a second choice, but at least it suggests she doesn't have anything important to tell me! Thanks for the advice, Little and jim0987: it helped me realize what I really wanted to tell her (though following our intuition seems to rarely pay off around here...)

I feel my W and I are still weeks or months away from having normal discussions, where she has worked through a few things and I'm more emotionally capable, so I've no expectations for this lunch. This being said, I need help to prepare for it!