Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD

[gogofo]

W just sent me a picture of a list showing pros, cons, and wants for her in our relationship. She said she wants me to send her my list with the same things and want to talk about it on Wednesday.

She also said her list wasn't meant to be hurtful, she was just trying to sort things out and communicate; and that she knows the cons list is longer but she was just freely writing.

I think this could be a positive step forward for us as this is something we have never done in years, especially the wants list. Our lives are so much more complicated now than they were before kids and two professional careers that we really need to do this.

Now to get some paper and start digging deep into my list.