I reflect on one of Micheles posts which is a letter from a man who resolved to be his WAW's best friend regardless of what she did, and so created the changes and space for her to find her way back to him.
I personally would not advise that route at all. Out of thousands of postings, I have never known of any other case where that decision worked with a WAW. Anyone can be her best friend. Only one person can be her husband! If you settle to be her BFF....regardless of what she does.....she will never respect you or feel you qualify for H material. Let another woman be her girlfriend.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
