My first day off plan is this coming Saturday. I have a hankering for some fried clams. So I plan on leaving Saturday morning with our silk terrier and head up to Kittery Maine for lunch. Gonna try a clam shack I saw on TV. Then I am gonna swing up to North Conway New Hampshire and pick up the Kangumangus Highway across to Lincoln. Probably stopped along the Kang for a hike to see a waterfall or such. Then I will swing south along east side of ct river till I get to the wood covered bridge crossing the CT river at around woodstock Vt and pick up 91 south back home. Hopefully it will be a nice day for a drive.
I didn't go to Dr. Lots of ibeprophen and taking it easy.
I don't get involved with wife or daughters. She needs to do this on her own as you have said. I don't offer anything nor do I get in the way of things.
I am being careful. I am more concerned that if she lets 19 yr old daughter get car to commute to school, then 18 yr old daughter will want the same since she will also be commuting. in most respects if she is competing then it is a change from her and may help her heal more. I don't plan on competing. I just plan on being the best dad I can be. I just have to keep it in mind to make sure it does not get out of hand or the girls start to play one against the other. That could cause issues and has to be managed.
In terms of work? Now that things seem to be settling down I plan on starting my search for work. I had a good summer off with the girls and have my head screwed back on. So, tomorrow morning I will be talking to head hunter.
The house is on hold right now at lawyers request. He did not want me to continue putting money in it to finish it until its status has been resolved. I suspect having all three girls living there now with one in high school and two commuting to college will probably stack thing in my favor to keep the house for now with future sale after kids are done with school. So for now I get to look at un finished house.
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