I wasn't mad at my W, I was mad that someone would be providing this information to someone.
It has motivated me even more about changing into who I want to be and changing at the core like you said. I know I can change, I have changed quite a bit about myself. My W even noticed this.
I still have work to do, but I will not let this opinion sway me from my goals/changes.
One thing in my life I have issues with is letting small details overwhelm me and get me to a point of stagnation when doing projects or working on things. I let the details frustrate me and find reasons not to do things, instead of keeping my eyes on my goal and attacking the obstacles as they come.
Still need work for it to be natural, but I am noticing when it happens and self motivating to keep working towards my goals, end or projects, etc. I always start things with a huge head of steam and then my actions/motivation slowly peter out to where things just sit there half or three quarters finished. These projects create stress in my life and I am trying to work through these issues.
I read a couple of great quotes from Henry Ford that I love and can apply to many areas of my life.
"Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal."
"If you always do what you've always done, you always get what you've always got"
"Don't find fault, find a remedy."
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15