I am getting more comfortable with the idea of taking off to do things for myself again when the kids are with her.
I cannot stress how important this is. Taking time for you will help, you, the kids and everything else in your life. So….what types of things do you want to do? I found that making a list/plans help.
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Other than my back, it was a good weekend
Did you go to the Dr?
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I can see through her actions that my wife is starting to reconnect with my daughters.
Just remember….it is NOT your job to fix the R between them. It is YOUR job to not do anything that makes it worse.
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Almost a bit like she is competing with me.
IMO, the minute you even think like this….your setting yourself up to FEEL like this. This is not a competition and I know you are not saying that it is. Be careful here..is all I’m saying.
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She pleads poverty and sends all their bills to me through the kids to get them covered.
Get used to this ^^^^^ it may be this way for a long time……
An a separate note: How is work, house, etc.?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
