I forgot, one thing she told me was that she went to see a councilor in April and that she was told that people never change.

WTF is that about? Blew my mind when she told me, wow I was mad.

I would hope to think that a professional would understand that people do have the capacity to change, if the WANT to change.

I think every piece of self help I have read reinforces our ability to change.

I'm still dumbfounded by what she was told.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15