I specifically read anything 25yearsmlc posts. Other women's threads I have not specifically sought out, but I should. Sometimes it is hard to figure out which threads are posted by women as some protect their identity very well. I will go and educate myself.

The timeline thing is where I need to breath and practice patience. I like to move too quickly sometimes and slower than she likes at other times.

She did list a couple things about when she wants to feel taken care of. I will have to put pen to paper and get deep with this.

I did reschedule my appointment from Wednesday to Tuesday because the W comes back from her work trip on Wednesday afternoon and I want to talk with my coach before she comes back. Get some more advice on my situation.

Thanks for the help, everyone.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15