Claire, I haven't been following your situation until very recently. I'm so sorry you're 12 months into this, and you know what? You don't have to wish him well. F'him and feed him fish heads.
As a member of the male species, I am dumbfounded how a man walks out on his wife with a 2 year old. I don't care if your wife is a screaming shrew and hasn't given you sex in 12 months. Suck it up man, and take care of business.
OK, sorry. Soap Box mode: off
My husbands fave statement was he never got sex for a year with w1. I bet he tells ow w2 was fridged as w1. He would give me a lecture now I never made a move on him, then absolutely reject me when i did, saying no and leaving the house. I would beg him not to, he would not reconsider.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26