Condonation, that's good to know for all the LBS out there. I talked to my friend who's an ATTY and he said he'd never heard of that being used as a defense to adultry (we're in Texas). He's done a couple Ds but not his specialty. His other comment was, how does she prove you did ML even if it came up.
I made mention of the "not having a condom" as much as a zinger to put an end to "the mood". Not sure how'd the wife would respond, but I find my give a damn is almost empty.
Me: 37, W: 36 S6, S3 M: 8 T:11 Discovered 1st A: 9/3/14 Began DB: 9/20/14 W "ended" 1st A repeatedly Discovered at least 3 more A's, filed 10/29/14