Claire, I haven't been following your situation until very recently. I'm so sorry you're 12 months into this, and you know what? You don't have to wish him well. F'him and feed him fish heads.

As a member of the male species, I am dumbfounded how a man walks out on his wife with a 2 year old. I don't care if your wife is a screaming shrew and hasn't given you sex in 12 months. Suck it up man, and take care of business.

OK, sorry. Soap Box mode: off

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3