And just for the record, I found an excuse to text BF and had a short conversation where upon he asked me how my weekend was and how the cat is doing before he told me he was headed to bed.
Oops. My will power is nil tonight.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies