Trying to stay patient- part 6

[gogofo]

I would extend the invitation. I think it was 25yearsmlc that has relayed a story of taking a family vacation when their marriage was on the rocks. The message was that she acted "as if" and it was an enjoyable time. Later when reconciling the H specifically talked about the good time on the vacation as one of the reasons to work on the marriage.

Or I could be mixing stories. Either way, I would invite, act "as if" and keep in mind it is for your children not you and your relationship.