Can you make it a quick handover? Less chance of anger surfacing.

And re Facebook. You can unfriendly him and he won't know, but he will still be able to see and comment on your posts. I found that I was always looking for my wife's posts or comments and my heart would jump or sink or something or other. My flatmate advised me to unfriendly and I'm glad I did. It has help me with detaching.

Come on girl, you can do this. You are super strong. We're all rooting for you.

M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner