I'm sorry you are having a tough day. I name dropped and unfriended xh when he was openly with OW. Was it the right thing to do? Honestly I have no clue. I just felt funny listing someone as my h when they were discussing their R with OW. No rush on your decision. Mull it over and whatever you decide will be what's best for you. Social media has really changed some things that we never thought required a discussion.
Sending you positive vibes :-)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer