I'm sorry Maybell - I'm not sure if he's being clueless or just disrespectful. Everyone on these boards joined with the intention of saving their marriages - but so often you read a story and think - geesh what it is about this guy that makes such an awesome lady put up with so much?
And this is one of those moments.
BTW- I don't think your PMA wasn't real. A gutpunch is a gutpunch is a gutpunch.