STBX has kids somewhat unexpectedly today (its a long story) so I find myself with a free weekend day which never happens.
So I took a long hot bath and then got into bed for a nap and thought I might finally have a long self indulgent cry....and darnit none will come. Laid there for an hour petting the occasional cat that came to visit and decided it wasn't going to happen.
Will have to have a converation with STBX this week. Both he and OW are in law enforcement in their county. He and I can sit down and see if we can come to agreement on major issues before our mediation appt on Nov 20, but if we can't I am going to have to petition to move the case to my county because I have concerns about the impartiality of the justice system in his home court. He had already mentioned moving it so that I wouldn't have to drive so much. However I do not want to have this talk until I get back from Disneyland with the kids and his Mom on Nov 4th. We've invested too much in this trip and I don't want it ruined.
And speaking of which - its not really major GAL - but I am going to sepnd a happy hour tootling around with an app that lets you set your Disneyland itinerary according to algorithms that predict shortest line waits to maximize your day and which just delights my geeky geeky brain. That being said - if the girls want to ride Dumbo 20 times I will happily chuck the plans out the window. Hope everyone is having a good weekend.
