I think that all the time I don't know what W is doing I will be strong and stand in hope she may come home one day .
I feel I need to do it for myself and my kids .
Kids are happy and so am I at the moment so limbo doesn't seem so bad .
Think it helps that I'm not aware if W is with OM or not .

Only issue is waiting for W to possibly drop the bomb that she is in a full on serious relationship with him , and then having to deal with the kids being upset all over again .

Limbo limbo limbo


Me 40
W 37
Together 22 years
S18
D12
WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months
W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life
After the 2 weeks she has left .