I admit I'm not a vet. Take my advice with a grain of salt and trust the vets over me. But I don't see any good thing in you continuing to have convos with her that end in fights every time. Until you learn how to deal with those talks, avoid them. Don't initiate them, and if she does, if you feel it going down a similar path, ask her if you can talk about it another time when you are ready. Someone else might have a more clever line to use.


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23