Look at it a different way...what is your goal when you tell her the S is her decision? If it is alleviate your guilt and place it on her, then keep going because you are meeting your goal.
Little confused by this. When W was telling me to leave other people were telling me to make sure you let her know the S was her choice therefore I was not leaving. I guess my goal would be that she does not think it is mutual. Expecially for the kids. It is her choice to leave so how can she take the kids. I know that I could have done things differently during our marriage and I have taken responsibility for that. But I want stay and fix it. I choose to fight for our marriage for kids. She does not. If that makes sense.
M:35 W 31 D's:6, 4 & 2 T:9 M:7 ILYBNILWY- Mar/14 DP Served Dec.17/14
