Hey Ss, random thought but what if you leave D and H together with the pumpkins and go out and do something fun! Wouldn't that be a 180? Get dressed up, and when H gets there say "oh hey have fun with the pumpkins, I have plans tonight ta ta!" and take your cute little self out the door. See a movie or whatever.
I know you love spending time with D but it seems like your H just playing house with you and always hanging around is not really working! Maybe you can shake things up and make him wonder if you have a date.
Just an idea.
And also I like the idea to move to Northern Cal. It is great up there! But darn expensive, although LA real estate is not cheap Nor Cal is CRAZY! Lots of well paying jobs though!
