I don't think either of us would have known what that looked like. We tend to lean towards the concrete. And we never discussed a cohesive idea of what values we wanted to instill in our kids. Or our goals as a couple. I tried a few times but he said his brain doesn't work that way and he preferred to just wing it. And yet he says that he feels like we agree on the big picture issues.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
