The fact that you have looked for answers in all of those places is better than most, already.

Did you ever ask your H to simply be on your team as a parent, not just for ideas or solutions? He may have felt inadequate to help you if he thought you needed answers from him, leading him to withdraw. If he knew you really needed his support and teamwork more than anything, maybe he would have felt more open to providing that?

I ask not so you will regret the past but to have hope for how it could be different in the future if your WAH seeks to R

Last edited by Card29; 10/26/14 05:07 PM.
Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23