I seriously doubt that - besides some people really go for independent and decisive.
we all want what's best for our kids but sometimes its about not sweating the small stuff.
My W's family are constantly bad mouthing SILs XH in front of his son and I think that one day this is going to backfire. That's his dad and he enjoys the time there and sooner or later he us going to resent the criticism of him.
If its a big issue then you need to discuss it if not then worry about the boundaries you want to set.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
