Yesterday, I was coming upstairs after taking a shower I heard a car out front of my house. I peeked through the shades and saw a fairly attractive woman walking up to my front door. She looked anxious and nervous but not angry.
I caught a quick glimpse of the car and it looked like the OM significant other(whatever that is)car but I couldn't be sure.
I hurried to get dressed. This person didn't knock and my door bell isn't functioning so when I finished dressing I went to answer the door but they were already gone.
I am not completely sure that this woman was who I think it was because I have never actually saw her in person.
It is just strange because it is rare that someone comes to our door that I don't know and we have been here 14 yrs.
The question I have is why is she coming to my door if it is her? I mean this A has been going on for awhile now and it doesn't seem to make sense that contact would happen now maybe sooner but not now. Idk
Second question, If she comes around again and it is the OM woman what do I say to her? I will listen first but I am sure she will ask if I suspect anything.
As much as I am upset with my W, I have tried to keep the A discussions between us as much as possible.
Of course, I empathize with this woman but she isn't my main concern. I am concerned with myself and what I am trying to do.
I am sure this situation has happened to someone on the boards any help is appreciated.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
