I apologize, if she decided for any reason to violate the order for contact, direct or indirect - I could Technically spend a year in jail. My oldest is 10, and I have NO way to contact her directly. Even 3rd party contact she could call indirect. If I sent mail (the lawyer said) even in my daughters name - indirect contact. If i met them at the bus stop in the morning, wife would be there. They do not even get off the bus anymore, so I cannot see them there (not sure where they are dropped or picked up). Grammie and Grampie do not talk to me, so I cannot visit through them. And there is not even One family member between us for communication - so I have no way of setting it up with out Some contact with her.. I am not making excuses, I am avoiding the possible Vindictiveness of this illogically thinking woman that I cal my wife.
