Billman, this is only partially true. If you were truly interested in contacting your kids, you would have already found a way to do it. Instead your sitting on the sidelines saying, "my hands are tied, I don't know what else to do."
Be proactive, figure it out.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3