Is it too late?

[MrBond]

"That analysis is dead wrong and WAAAAYYY off base when it comes to MLC. As a former MLCer, I was depressed, scared, and looking for "something""

Yes and it was what I mentioned.

"I did not seek out OW to "explore" or "grow" in a R "

Since everyone seems to be misinterpreting what I meant, let me reiterate. The OP is not a cause of MLC. The WAS feels an emptiness which they fill with anything superficial rather than looking within. It could be an OP, a new job, a new car, whatever.

123Gwen said that the OW was one of the causes of her H's MLC. But the point I was trying to make was that the OP is not a CAUSE of MLC.