This advice was exactly what I needed to hear. I need to understand and actually respect that H's journey is his own that he needs to go through it without interference from me. In the meantime, I will be on a journey of my own. I just pray that we reconnect once our journeys are completed.


Me: 54
H: 58
Married: 29 years
Together 33 years
H admitted to A: 5/29/14
H moved out :6/15/14
OW lives 4 hours away and "occasionally" stays weekends with H
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