I cannot accept that this is it.

[Zues126]

Thank you for understanding you can't give her that letter, or anything like that.

Realize that she has her own letter. It is probay MORE emotional and fed up, and in that letter she makes you look FAR worse than you present her here.

Forget about the scoreboard. Focus on the children first. That means you acknowledge that you W is gone at this time. Show her through your actions that you accept that and that you just want to minimize drama and stay involved with your children.

Then is take that letter and talk to your DB coach about it. You have some work to do before you can talk to your W. I think you're at the point your emotions are so strong you could enter a conversation with good intention and before you know it do or say something that could impact your family forever. Please slow down and be careful.