Thanks LoisB for your kindness.

I am posting here to learn more about DBusting techniques in a situation where H is almost 2000 miles away, in the midst of MLC and an A. I am reading everyday and moving forward while trying to protect myself financially.

I am not being defensive but right now I am emotionally fragile and my self esteem has taken a beating. At this moment; I am trying to focus on what to do rather than what was done wrong.

Last edited by 123Gwen; 10/25/14 09:37 PM.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou