So she's got a flat and she's moving out, and making it clear on social media. Divorce papers will probably be my Christmas present. I have been positive and smiling around her, showing I care and wanting the best for her. I didn't give the affection I normally do but received a hug and a cuddle in my sleep (which was probably just force of habit). I really can't see this marriage coming back although I hope for a miracle. The writing's on the wall and when I asked whether there's the tiniest thread of a glimmer of hope she said no - she's happier away from me and the arguing. What more can I do now?