I know I need to stop but it's so hard for me to see what he sees in her?
I think we would all like the answer to that .
My W has left the family home and also our children to be with a guy who has no real future . He cheated on his own W who had 3 kids many years ago and appears to be a serial cheat . He has recently been homeless living in his van and where he works . Earns a third of what I do . Is a complete pussy I know this because every time I caught them together he would run to get friends and threaten to get people to beat me up . So he is a real catch but she says she is in love with him and can't give bring with him up. Suppose it must be his silver tounge .
I have given up thinking about it and it helped me a great deal with detaching .
So just try to put HW out of your mind . I know it's hard but it does get easier .
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
