I just don't believe in him enough that he will do that work and THAT'S what hurts. Will he do the hard work or take the easy road? I hate that I already know the answer.
You don't know that answer, so don't worry or think about it. This is a crisis for him, too. There is no way he will come out of his fog unchanged in some way. there's no telling what those changes might be, or if they'll be good or bad, but he will not be exactly the same. If he comes out of his fog and values what he would stand to lose, you might be surprised at the lengths he could be willing to go to save it. But we could all only hypothesize about these things, so for your own sanity, don't.
Originally Posted By: Ss06
Timelines. I've always needed them. I've always needed to know when something might end. No end in sight or even the hope of a good ending... It's unbearable. Or at least seemingly so.
2 years, 2 months and 10 days, remember? This will be resolved by then. (Maybell wisdom)
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
