This is by far the most inclusive and clear guidance I have read on this board. Your grasp of DBing is like you wrote the book. Your ability to dissect people and their intentions and buried feelings is amazing.
I have learned more about myself from your responses on this thread than I have in a while. Thank you for taking your personal time and helping guide the heart broken masses that collect here.
This thread and your responses should be required reading for anyone on this board.
Now to work on my co dependency issues and not relying on my wife to be more than my W. I think she felt pressured to be my everything because I let my relationships with my friends slip away and only had my work or my marriage, nothing else. I thought I was doing the best for my marriage and W and kids, but now have an insight into how it negatively affected our M.
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15
