I can be the lighthouse but not the tugboat

[daring]

I agree Bright Future- he is so confused! Last time we really had an R talk ( initiated by him) he discussed how he would rather remarry me after doing things right and making things up to me. He still has some resentment towards me for some things but he also recognizes he has major issues and I think the D is " safer" for him b/c he feels he can't measure up or will end up hurting me.
The MLC logic is such a mess.

I called to set up my coaching session- I need some help on best ways to handle all of this.