Thanks, Vossy and Lisa for the quick feedback.

Vossy - if my H declines you're welcome to join me. I'll keep an eye out for the person with a big DB stamped on their forehead ;-) Re FB, that stat would be true in my experience. I didn't use FB much before either but have been since DB.

Lisa - yeah, I reckon I'm going to do it! It's funny what you say re him needing a friendly push. I came across a Valentine's Day card from a couple of years ago when I was packing up my old house. It said something to the effect of loving me because I teach him something new every day, but he only understands the lesson when he's looking back at the situation. The lesson of that day was around planning our future, something that I was trying to get us to do and some thing which he responded to by buying an assortment of goal setting tools. We never did get very far with them…which is interesting looking back.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014