Thanks, Lisa. Honestly I'm not sure that H will be checking FB. He's always been kinda anti-FB. He changed his profile picture soon after he moved out then hasn't updated it since….and its not the most flattering photo of him. But who knows, maybe he's become a FB fiend as part of his new persona?

I'm a bit inspired reading that you've been testing the waters again with texting your H. There's a great seaside event on over near where my H lives and I intend to go later today. I'm toying with dropping him a text "Hey H, I'm going to X later in the day. You around? Want to grab a drink? I have some news to share." (I learned that I got my promotion earlier in the week). Not sure though. He'll most likely say no...I can deal with that (no expectations)…but will it cause harm?


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014