Originally Posted By: Zues126
I'd think a hand written letter stating

-you realize you messed up (not lookin for forgiveness or another chance, just acknowledging you have had a chance to see this, not looking for anything in return such as goodwill back)
-that you wish her the best and she deserves to be happy
-that since you will be coparenting through the children's lives together you are committed to doing better in a coparenting role and want to prevent further drama.
-that while you know that wont change how she feels, it is what she and the children deserve.


Can anyone give me a thought as to whether this is a good idea or not? I'd be happy to post it after writing it for clearer confirmation. Also I plan to get at least one Coach session, but not able until next week at the minimum.

Any advice/help I can get would be awesome, I just do not want to make mistakes, and want to do this right. Thank you.


Me: 34
Her: 30
Together: 05/03/2002
Married: 10/14/2004
Children: D9,D6,S4
Bomb 1: 07/24/2011
Repaired: 11/01/2011
Bomb 2: 08/26/2014