raliced, you are such a good example to me. You sound solid, grounded, and okay with your direction. I'm there too, but I'm still processing a lot of sadness (although it could just be monthly hormones). What you say about the lying and lack of integrity is also what I find so surprising in my own STBX. Who are these people, and how did they become this person? It's baffling, truly. And we do deserve more.
Good luck with the tree house! That sounds like a major project.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!