Ditto for me here! I was a loving, attractive and supportive partner, who would have bent over backwards to make him happy! And if there are needs not being met, then they need to communicate it in any case, which never happened once in my sitch!

Sometimes affairs happen because the wayward person has some severe character flaws, insecurities or issues that have nothing or very little to do with the relationship.


Engaged Aug 2009
Fiancé had doubts Jan 2010
Happily re-engaged July 2012
Discovery of affair July 2014
Separated July 2014
Fiancé is confused about whom to choose
Chose the OW Oct 2014