Mindsin thanks for chiming in . My sitch is not unlike alot of others on here . however i think my personality defintely is . I dont believe anyone on here has gone to the extremes I have to try and save their marriage . Most on here have been very diplomatic in their efforts . Me on the other hand have lost it several times and even gone to the physical side of things . Not really recommended to do that . Its illegal to start with and i was lucky not to get charged . Do I regret it ??? No , not at all . It showed my anger and my willingness to go to the extreme to keep my wife . But it probably didnt help me with my wife . It did chase OM away but wife still and probably will for a long time not love me . The only thing I can say is at least I stood up for myself and if she leaves she was likely going to anyway even if I had done nothing and detached . I was tired of being shait on and disrespected by the woman ive loved and cherished for 27 years. But moreso i was tired of this guy thinking I was a puss and he could just walk in and take my wife with out me standing up .
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
