What to do.
My D has just been with W but then my D ditched her to be with her friends in town .
Then comes home and asks can I stay with mum tomorrow night .

We have no agreement about custody etc but I'm reluctant to agree because it seems a bit short notice and D will be round there next weekend when I'm working nights .

Help what should I do . Worried I'm just doing it out of principle or maybe a boundary I have set myself about requiring some notice about where daughter is staying


Me 40
W 37
Together 22 years
S18
D12
WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months
W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life
After the 2 weeks she has left .